You Are the Common Denominator
If you feel as if everything is going wrong in your life, ask yourself: What am I doing to add to this? Are you gossiping about people instead of worrying about yourself? Are you finding solutions or are you still doing the same ol' things? Are you waiting for someone else to make a change for you?
The point is, we are the common denominator in our lives. You have to stop and reflect on yourself, in order to find a resolution. You are the only person that is in your way.